What do you do apart from play games?

[soop]

I need to meet more people and do more stuff, because the banging your head against the brick wall method of trying to meet my future wife is not currently working out.  But everything I like doing is not conducive to female attention in the least - well apart from cooking, but it's not like anyone is gonna appear in my kitchen.

So basically, I have interests but I don't go to any classes or go dancing or whatever, plus I'm quite shy sometimes.

What do you guys do in your free time?

[SuperDeadite]

You will never meet a woman if you are actually seeking one.  A one night stand or a 2 week casual affair? Yes.  A long term relationship? Never.  It's always when you aren't looking for it.

For myself I enjoy snowboarding and drinking.  Often both at once.

[soop]

You will never meet a woman if you are actually seeking one.  A one night stand or a 2 week casual affair? Yes.  A long term relationship? Never.  It's always when you aren't looking for it.

For myself I enjoy snowboarding and drinking.  Often both at once.

I kind of miss skating (board).  I'm probably too old now :O

[rag-time4]

Does your wife need to be your activity partner as well? If you can do your part financially and be monogamous you should be able to find someone.

I met my wife on a matchmaking website. Im from california, she's from the philippines. We're currently in the philippines now visiting family.

[soop]

Does your wife need to be your activity partner as well? If you can do your part financially and be monogamous you should be able to find someone.

I met my wife on a matchmaking website. Im from california, she's from the philippines. We're currently in the philippines now visiting family.

Nah, not my activity partner, but it would be nice to have something in common.  I've had interest, but no mutual attraction.  I think part of the problem is certainly that I'm too picky (and possibly shallow) but I couldn't see someone I'm not phsically very attracted to.

[kamiboy]

Once you kiss your future wife you can kiss your past game collection goodbye.

[soop]

Once you kiss your future wife you can kiss your past game collection goodbye.

Hah, that will never happen!

[Nando]

I wonder if there's like a cooking class/single meet like places? maybe that's a good business to start up.

[rag-time4]

Does your wife need to be your activity partner as well? If you can do your part financially and be monogamous you should be able to find someone.

I met my wife on a matchmaking website. Im from california, she's from the philippines. We're currently in the philippines now visiting family.

Nah, not my activity partner, but it would be nice to have something in common.  I've had interest, but no mutual attraction.  I think part of the problem is certainly that I'm too picky (and possibly shallow) but I couldn't see someone I'm not phsically very attracted to.

Being picky is great. Do your best to be picky about the things that will lead to a lifelong marriage and be persistent!

[roflmao]

Does meetup.com work in your neck of the woods?  Both my wife and I have found groups and events through meetup.  I joined a D&D gaming group that meets weekly (though I don't attend anymore) and a photography meetup group where people get together on location every once in awhile to shoot pictures and talk shop.  It's not a dating service, but it's a good way to meet like-minded people in the area and get out of the house once in awhile.  We're also part of a nature/hiking group, but haven't made it to any of the meetups for that one yet.

[hoobs88]

Ultimate Frisbee, guitar, Magic:the Gathering, movies, rollerblading

[Nando]

Pretty much, find another social hobby that you enjoy and gets you out of the house and you are likely to meet a kindred "soul" if you will.

[NecroPhile]

Biking, drinking, stabbing hookers, and tormenting naughty robot souls fills up most of my free time.

[soop]

Pretty much, find another social hobby that you enjoy and gets you out of the house and you are likely to meet a kindred "soul" if you will.

Yeah, that's what I'm thinking.  I have a friend that is taking that approach.

Ultimate Frisbee and D&D sound like my cup of tea (though I can't imagine meeting too many girls doing D&D).

In fact I love frisbee, and try and play it as often as possible, but the weather has been terrible recently.  Still got out for a few hours, and my throws are getting really good!  curve shots particularly.  Still can't hammer throw though.

[Arkhan Asylum]

You will never meet a woman if you are actually seeking one.  A one night stand or a 2 week casual affair? Yes.  A long term relationship? Never.  It's always when you aren't looking for it.

I disagree.



When I'm not playing games, I am making music, rollerskating, killing cops, snorting blow, tokyo drifting, watching anime, playing with my lizards, and programming stuff.

[soop]

Interesting story; I once met a girl via origami.  I was chillin in the pub making an elephant when this girl started talking to me about it, and showed me how to make something else.  I can't remember her name, but she was cute, a little shy, and an otaku.  I ended up going around her house to watch the other ending of Evangelion, both sat on her bed in her tiny room.  Turns out she had a boyfriend though.  I bumped into her once more, but I never saw her again after.

Some of my friends would kill for a girl like that.

Screw it, I'm gonna go out tonight with some squares of paper!

Actually... I bet I still have her number on one of my old phones.  What was her name?

[Arkhan Asylum]

[turbokon]

I never have the problem of meeting girls as I've been married to my high school sweetheart going on 12 years this month. Let just say if I ever needed to, it's easy now for me then back in high school.  Other interests are movies, karate, home improvement projects and I have three girls to deal with:)

[SuperDeadite]

Interesting story; I once met a girl via origami.  I was chillin in the pub making an elephant when this girl started talking to me about it, and showed me how to make something else.  I can't remember her name, but she was cute, a little shy, and an otaku.  I ended up going around her house to watch the other ending of Evangelion, both sat on her bed in her tiny room.  Turns out she had a boyfriend though.  I bumped into her once more, but I never saw her again after.

Some of my friends would kill for a girl like that.

Screw it, I'm gonna go out tonight with some squares of paper!

Actually... I bet I still have her number on one of my old phones.  What was her name?

You so should have banged her right then.  Especially during one of the Lilith scenes.

[GohanX]

You so should have banged her right then.  Especially during one of the Lilith scenes.

Yes!

In the springtime, I like to work on my cars a lot. I have a Mazda RX-7 GSL-SE that has been sitting for the better part of 2 years now, and I have it running pretty well and have been driving it daily for 3 or so weeks now without to much trouble. It's a work in progress though, still need to fix the AC and figure out why it doesn't idle when cold.

[thesteve]

i fix things
cars, apliances, modules for aircraft, TV's, game equipment ect.

[VestCunt]

Playing music, live sound mixing, tai chi, sewing, baseball. I used to drink a lot to get over my inhibitions, but that didn't work out too well and I've been sober for seven years. I used to motorcycle, but I crashed it in the Ozarks last summer.

- well apart from cooking, but it's not like anyone is gonna appear in my kitchen.

An eighty-year-old woman once told me that a man has to either learn how to cook or how to dance before getting married, so you're set.

Once you kiss your future wife you can kiss your past game collection goodbye.

I've known a few guys over the years who've ditched their hobbies or shaved off massive parts of their personality in an effort to please wives/girlfriends.  They're all divorced now.

Ultimate Frisbee and D&D sound like my cup of tea...

Two of my favorite things, but I haven't done either one in years.

Interesting story; I once met a girl via origami.  I was chillin in the pub making an elephant when this girl started talking to me about it,

You met the girl because you weren't thinking about girls, not because you were folding an elephant.

[420GOAT]

bikes and puppies is your key dude! every time im with my small yorky/chihuaua mix, flocks of chicks come to me. im married but if i was not that would be the way to meet girls.

[PikachuWarrior]

I have three dogs, so those are like my 'children' so to speak. I like watching movies, going shopping (to the mall and thrift stores as well), discovering different types of restaurants (and no i'm not fat or obese lol)

[Ji-L87]

What do you do apart from play games?
Nothing that attracts women. Sadly.

Though it's on my mind from time to time, it's not my number one priority. In the future, maybe that will change, but I'm not desperate for company as it right now. For that I have friends.

[OldRover]

Apart from playing games, I do research (PLT and AI mainly), run my corporation, study martial arts, work out, raise my kids, and fuck my wife. My wife would never come between me and my games, though she's been known to come because of them. Oh wait... TMI.

[termis]

Love motorcycling.  Which used to be great for getting chicks, but that was in my teens/early 20s.  That doesn't apply anymore, but doesn't matter much anymore since I'm married and all now.

Love(d) to drink too, and... ...well, exact same story as above.

So in all, not much helpful advice from me, unless you're in your teens/early 20s - then learn to ride a motorbike! (Actually, motorcycling is great even without the girl factor. )

[turbokon]

Soop, you ever thought about mail order bride or something like that:)

Oldriver, what martial art do you practice? I practice seibukan karate.

[TheClash603]

Online dating seems to be the way to go in 2012.  Women dont go out looking for cock anymore, they rub their clits looking at profile pictures all night instead.

Met my gf almost 6 years ago, so that advice didnt apply when i was looking.

I am at the age where a woman is more interested in a guy that can provide, goes to work every day, and doesnt cheat.  Hobbies are an extra touch when you get older, but polar opposites in hobbies can have a perfect relationship together with compromise.

[soop]

Forever alone

[Nando]

Forever alone

Just gotta take a look at the pond you are fishing in my man.

I have two friends that met their wive's online via dating sites. They are all still together with kids and the whole setup.

I think you nailed it before, go play some foozeball and socialize.

YOU CAN DO EET!!!

unless you just want to get laid, in which case. Hit up ze ol bar/club scene. Just don't expect many relationship worthy women on that end.


Happy hunting

[OldRover]

Oldriver, what martial art do you practice? I practice seibukan karate.

Shāndōng praying mantis. 螳螂拳

Would like to study Krav Maga but can't afford school right now.

[Digi.k]

I don't have anymore free time..

If you really want to get to meet more people.. goto art university/college

[Nando]

Would like to study Krav Maga but can't afford school right now.

SO MUCH FUN! I studied a bit of Krav in my 20's among a few other things. Bas was my hero back in the day.